Reflection
Meetings often promise alignment but deliver distraction, especially if you recharge quietly or process internally. Accepting that your attention is finite lets you treat meetings as a choice rather than a default.
Design matters: keep agendas tight, invite only necessary people, and offer pre-reads so presence can be focused. Timebox discussions, name roles, and welcome written contributions as an equal path to influence.
When you do attend, use small strategies to stay steady — arrive a few minutes early to settle, keep a simple note structure to collect thoughts, and schedule a brief buffer afterward to recover. The aim is connection without depletion.