Reflection
Many introverts value physical affection but can feel easily overstimulated by long or unexpected touch. Preferring slow, deliberate gestures and clear consent helps make affection feel like a choice rather than an obligation.
Try small experiments: agree on simple signals for when you want contact, limit duration to brief hugs or a hand squeeze, and choose moments when energy is low but calm. Control the setting so you can step away when needed, and be explicit about pressure, pace, and placement so the experience feels safe.
If touch still feels heavy, offer alternatives that communicate closeness: sitting side by side, a hand held while reading, or shared silence. Revisit boundaries kindly, notice how preferences shift over time, and allow gentle curiosity to guide gradual changes.